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Dear Jamie,

Well see my friend and i are both bisexual, but not openly except with each other, and i really wanna take our relationship to the next level but i'm not sure what to do?

Tim
Burlington

Dear Tim,

First rule of thumb Tim my boy, don't go getting any ideas on outting your friend! If you want to come out, GREAT! But we all have our own time to do things. If outting yourself wasn't part of your plan then ignore my starting comments and read on.

You only get to live once! Go for the gold! Be open with what you want, the only thing you've got to loose is a little poke in the dark! You want more? Make your friend aware of it. What's the point of waiting around and hoping it will happen? If your friend doesn't want that, well then move on! Now serving number 2!

Love,
Jamie

Dear Jamie,

I really hurt my boyfriend, and i didn't mean to. I lied to him about how many other people i have been with, and when he found out we split. I really miss him and need him back, and he knows this, we both still really love each other...But he can't trust me. Which i understand. Can you help me out in any way. Do you know any ways on how i can earn his trust back?

Thanks alot.

Wanting Him Back
Niagara

Dear Wanting,

Well, well, well...

What can i say? How about, "You're not the first or only person in the world who has lied about how many people you've been with!". It's in our nature to boast or shy away from this ridiculas game of numbers. So chill out, and relax! As for your other half, I think he's got a insecurity issue! Give him a shake and say "HELLO????, my past is the past. It's what made me who I am today, it's what made me the person you love!". Seems to me that you were cutting down on the numbers to protect him, so if he can't appreciate that, well then... So listen up honey, it's not really a matter of trust, it all comes down to your boy toy accepting and being comfortable with your track record. For some, numbers mean the world, others get sick of the thought of getting around! Welcome to real life!

Love,
Jamie

Dear Jamie,

My girlfriend and I are having problems with our next door neighbor. She's a middle aged woman who doesn't ever leave her house. She's spying on us everytime we turn around, I've even caught her looking through our windows with binoculars! This woman doesn't seem to do it to anyone else on the street, I've asked them all! What can I do to break her of this habit?

Jenny
Burlington

Dear Jenny,

Listen up honey! You can't teach an old dog new tricks, but you can show em' a few. Maybe granny has a thing for lesbians, so educate her! Next time she's got her nose up to your window, put on a show, be a superstar, give it all you got. She'll either ask to join in next time, or she'll be scared for life and never peep again!

Love,
Jamie

Dear Jamie,

I'm having a hard time asking my boss for a raise at work. I know I shouldn't be nervous, but I don't want to mess it up or seem greedy. How should I go about asking him?

N.
Whitby

Dear N.

Well, well, well...! If your boss has the HOTS for you, problem solved! If not, approach him in his own manner. If he's humorous, throw it at him with humour. In other words honey, be yourself, act natural, and deal with it like you would all of your other daily business. Or then again, you could do it like my father would have, poke him in the chest and say "Look Bitch!".

Love,
Jamie